Blissera

In this era, we all are running. Now when I am talking about running, I don’t mean in the literal term but in metaphorical terms. As a student, we run from one tuition to another, as a working person we run from one place to another in search of work, as a housewife we run from fulfilling one needs to another so as a person in any stage of our life we just run. Now we may think what about people who are just sitting at home doing nothing or people who have a white-collar job who just have to sit in one chair and work how are they running. As I mentioned earlier that we are not talking in the literal term but we are talking in every aspect now people who are sitting in one place they are running through their minds. Their mind is running from one place to another.

So, do you think everything is worth it?

You’re running every day’s worth? The result you get from it, is it worth it?

We may think it is worth it because we are getting paid for it right? And I may even agree with you but what about the time when you are running but you aren’t getting paid for it. What about that, is it worth it now?

Now I may say no. I am not getting paid but my mind is still running for work, thinking of all the pending work or all the meetings left or if I have my own business all the growth aspects for my business. As a student, I am thinking about my studies 24*7. As a housewife, I am continuously thinking of the betterment of my family.

But are we thinking that is this thinking and is this running helping me grow individually, in business, studies, or family’s growth?

Okay, let’s say everything will be worth it in the end if we see the bigger picture. But what is the guarantee? If we are using our maximum time running to make things worthwhile in the end,d but what if I won’t come as assumed?

Do you think that keeping yourself running or your mind running is giving you effective output?

Many motivational speakers have said that it is very important to give yourself time but not time for running your, mind but to calm your mind and body. Let it relax for a while and recharge itself to work smarter with more guaranteed results.

We say and I believe that now this is the era of smart work and not of hard work.

So to be smart with your work distance yourself from time to time from the world.

 

 

IS IT OKAY TO BE IN POLYAMORY?

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I am so confused on how to start this topic and how to explain every point of view of mine to you in a very simplest way possible.

Polyamory is a term used when three people are in a relationship including romance, sex and everything that comes in a relationship of two people. When I first saw it in a Netflix series, I thought that it is a threesome which is very common for people exploring themselves sexually, but when the series moved forward, I saw that three people who were involved with each other are not just only having sex but are also involved with each other emotionally. If any person from a group is upset or hurt the other two feel for the person. I then understood that I misread the concept here of threesome but it is a throuple. Throuple is also known as polyamory we can use either of them for defining such type of relationship.

Now when we know about it and is very new in our society, we may judge it from our opinion and may even trash talk those who are in polyamory, but rather than jumping on polyamory let’s start with a relationship.

We always say that love can happen with more than one person, but when we say that we mean “at different times” right?

But what if love happen with more than one person at same time?

In fact, in our society, it is very difficult for people to understand the concept of loving more people at the time and here I am talking about relations which include romance, sexual needs and emotional support which we expect in a two people relationship.

So, to get a clear idea what is love?

As we know everyone has a different definition of it but if we think about it  is something where two people can be themselves in front of each other, you feel like wanting that person for the rest of your life.

So accordingly, if we see then it is not necessary for everyone to feel like this for just one person it can be for more and what is wrong with that?

Ultimately, it’s their life choice of how they want to live it plus, it is okay to let them be.

In my opinion if there is throuple or fouple (four people being in a relationship) or more I wont care because at the end its their life and we are no one to make our opinion about them because we are not standing in their shoes.

Cheers to polyamory.